THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SELVES & THE AWARE EGO PROCESS
In Voice Dialogue, the first step in mapping the inner world of
your psyche involves understanding the complex and rich
history of how you came to be who you are. Each of us is made
up of the totality of our life experience, our predispositions, the
influences of our family system and the culture around us, and
our in-born tendencies. And each of us enters the world as a
sensitive child carrying our authentic feelings, our complete
potential, and our most essential nature. For those of us with a
spiritual outlook this true self is the access point to the soul.
There is nothing more important than the very essence of who
we are, and so instinctively, we know we must protect this
deeply sensitive child self against everything that is potentially
threatening or damaging in order to remain sound and emotion-
ally healthy at our core.
The healthy psyche creates a Protector aspect to separate from
the Vulnerable Child, to survey the scene and to decide which
characteristics and traits (Primary Selves) will develop in rela-
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tion to our parents, siblings, and others in order to get as much
love and positive attention as possible, or as little abuse as
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possible if that is the unfortunate situation. The Protector shields
and defends the Vulnerable Child by making choices about what
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we might do to either appeal to others, stand in opposition to
them, or become less visible. A healthy person will naturally
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develop various Primary Selves (dynamic and conscious
elements of the personality) that become even stronger and
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more defined over time as we rely on these ways of being to
meet our needs. And because the human psyche is so complex,
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for every Primary Self there is also a Disowned Self on the other
end of the spectrum the equal and opposite shadow aspect
that is not developed and is repressed or rejected.
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In order to keep the Primary Selves on duty (protecting our
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Inner Child) the Protector needs an enforcer of some kind to
maintain the way of life that seems to work for us. The voice of
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the Inner Critic takes on the role of keeping us in line and may
also reflect the sentiments of parents or other authorities who
have provided an enforcing role in our lives. The problem with
the voice of our Inner Critic is that it tends to cut off, reject, and
deny the parts of us that are in the shadows. The Protector's
view is that Disowned Selves are dangerous, and will topple the
acceptable order of things if allowed to come forward, when
what is actually best for us, is to honor our innate desire to
become stronger and more emotionally healthy by discovering
the Disowned Selves and working with the powerful and accept-
ing voice of the Inner Nurturer which asks for more balance
between the opposites.
The Complete Life Process works with this deep desire for
wholeness and empowers the Aware Ego to come forward and
learn how to skillfully conduct all of these other aspects of our
personality. The internal conductor embraces both the Primary
and Disowned Selves without being attached to either, and so
can bring objectivity to the task of seeing both points of view
and modulating and resolving both perspectives in a sophisti-
cated way. This wonderful life skill transforms your conscious-
ness by accepting the totality of who you are and working with
the richness of paradox. When you learn how to tune into this
higher and more aware way of being, you find tremendous
peace.
In the Complete Life Process you practice specific ways to bring
more understanding to your experience, more skill to your
interactions with others, and more conscious choice to your life.
This work taps into the power of the most essential self you've
been protecting all along and gives full expression to the totality
of who you are a complete person finally free to live
unbounded.
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