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TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF IS IMPORTANT WHAT IS DEPRESSION?
Major changes in relationships, such as separation, can be a
How to tell if you re depressed and not just sad
trigger for depression. That s why the Child Support Agency
Sometimes it can be hard to know whether you are just
and beyondblue: the national depression initiative have joined
feeling down because of all the changes, or you have symptoms
forces to raise awareness of:
of depression.
" the risks and impact of depression on separating parents
" the importance of looking after yourself
Depression checklist
" where to go for help.
You may be depressed if for more than TWO WEEKS you have:
Separation can be a tough time. Parents who are separating
oÄ… Felt sad, down or miserable most of the time.
face big changes in their life, such as:
oÄ… Lost interest or pleasure in most of your usual activities.
" moving house
If the answer is YES to either of these questions, complete the
symptom checklist on the next page.
" spending more or less time with their children
If the answer is NOT yes to either of these questions, it is
" having less money to spend.
unlikely that you have a depressive illness.
They may also go through stages of feeling angry, guilty, lonely
or uncertain about the future.
Have you:
Taking care of yourself is important for you and for those
oÄ… Lost or gained a lot of weight OR
around you.
oÄ… Had a decrease or increase in appetite.
oÄ… Had disturbed sleep.
GETTING THROUGH THE TOUGH TIMES
oÄ… Felt slowed down, restless or excessively busy.
There are a number of things you can do to help get through
oÄ… Felt tired or had no energy.
difficult times.
oÄ… Felt worthless OR
" Get into a new routine  put aside enough time to manage
oÄ… Felt excessively guilty OR
new household and child care arrangements.
oÄ… Felt guilty about things you should not feel guilty about.
" Get support  identify friends, family and support groups.
oÄ… Had poor concentration OR
" Stay healthy  eat healthy meals, exercise regularly, get a
oÄ… Had difficulties thinking OR
good night s sleep and avoid drugs and alcohol. This will
oÄ… Been very indecisive.
help both physical fitness and mental health.
oÄ… Had recurrent thoughts of death.
" Learn to manage stress  simple things, like keeping a diary
of feelings and practising breathing and muscle-relaxation Add up the number of ticks for the total score: _______
techniques can help.
It s important to note that scores provide only a rough guide as to
" Take time out  make an effort to participate in enjoyable
whether someone has depression. If you have ticked five or more
activities.
of these statements, you should consult a health professional.
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WHAT PUTS A PERSON AT RISK OF
DEPRESSION?
There are a number of factors that can lead to a person
developing depression.These include:
" family conflict
" interpersonal conflict
" recent losses and disappointment.
As well as adjusting to life after separation, the risk of
depression may be increased by:
" a family history of mental health problems
" drug and alcohol abuse
" brain and chemical changes
" other medical illnesses or treatments
" personality type.
HOW COMMON IS DEPRESSION?
Depression is very common. About one million Australian adults
live with depression each year. On average, one in six men and
WHERE TO GET HELP
one in four women will experience depression in their adult
lifetime.
" A doctor who is a General Practitioner (GP) is a good first
step. In some cases, you may be referred to a mental health
TREATMENT FOR DEPRESSION
specialist like a psychiatrist or psychologist. For a list of GPs
It is important to remember that depression is a treatable with expertise in treating depression, anxiety and related
illness that you can recover from. There is a range of effective drug and alcohol problems visit www.beyondblue.org.au
treatments including: and click on Get Help.
Psychological treatments  help a person to change " Psychiatrists are doctors who specialise in mental health.They
negative thoughts and feelings and learn new ways to react can make medical and psychological assessments, conduct
to people and situations. This can help recovery and prevent medical tests and prescribe medication. Some psychiatrists
depression from returning. use psychological treatments.To see a psychiatrist, you need
to get a referral from a GP.
Medication  depression is often associated with an imbalance
of certain chemicals in the brain and, for some people, " Psychologists specialise in providing non-medical
medication may be required. Antidepressant medication helps (psychological) treatment for depression and related disorders.
rebalance these chemicals. Antidepressants can take 7 21 To find a psychologist go to www.beyondblue.org.au and
days to work effectively and should not be started or stopped click on Get Help.
without medical advice.
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OTHER USEFUL CONTACTS
Mensline Australia
1300 789 978
www.menslineaus.org.au
National 24 hour support for men facing challenges as a result of
family breakdown or separation. This service is funded by FaCSIA
and is staffed by professional counsellors at the cost of a local
call. Information, referral and call back service is also available.
Suicide Helpline Victoria
1300 651 251 (Victoria only)
www.suicidehelpline.org.au
24 hour counselling, crisis intervention, information and referral.
Lifeline
" Staying Connected Program  a workplace program
131 114
providing strategies and solutions for separated dads to stay
www.lifeline.org.au
connected with their children. For more information contact
stayingconnected@csa.gov.au
24 hour counselling.
Please note: Extra charges apply to calls made from mobile and public phones.
To order free CSA products and publications visit
www.csa.gov.au or call 1800 040 972.
Child Support Agency
For information about child support contact 131 272.
The Child Support Agency (CSA) works to ensure that children
can rely on their parents for the financial and emotional support
Family Relationship Advice Line
they require for their wellbeing. Separation can be a difficult
1800 050 321
time for families and CSA is committed to working with others
People from families affected by relationship or separation
to provide support and services to separated parents. CSA has
issues can get information and referral to support services, and
a range of products and services to help parents dealing with
advice about parenting arrangements after separation.
separation including:
Please note: Extra charges apply to calls made from mobile and public phones.
" Dealing with Separation  an interactive CD where people
share their experiences of separation.
Family Relationships Online
" Me and My series of booklets  tips and hints on:
www.familyrelationships.gov.au
 building relationships with children and ex-partners
Provides information about parenting arrangements after
 money issues
separation and about services that are available to help.
 emotional well-being
 new relationships.
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